Who is the Guide For?

This guide to anal sex is for you if:

  • you want to try anal sex for the first time;
  • your first time was bad but you're open to trying again. 

This guide is for male-female couples. Much of the advice here is for woman but there is advice included for men and guys, you won't go wrong reading the whole thing either.

If you want to have a successful anal sex experience, please read this guide start to finish. It's full of real advice and doesn't try to convince you anal sex is something everyone can do easily (like many other guides do).

There are also tips you won't find anywhere else - this is real advice from a real woman with real anal sex experience (both good and bad).

Can Anal Be Good?

Yes, it can! As a woman, you can enjoy being on the receiving end of anal sex. I speak from experience.

There are a lot of horror stories out there and with good reason. Anal sex isn't easy to get right. Quite contraire - it's more likely you're going to get it wrong the first time you try it, especially if you expect it to be as easy as vaginal sex. Let me say it clearly, enjoyable anal sex isn't easy for beginners (and again, I speak from experience).

However, equipped with good advice, some good lube and a considerate and educated lover, you can enjoy an intense sexual experience surprisingly apart from masturbation, penis-vagina sex or cunnilingus.

How to Avoid Painful Anal

Anal sex can be good. It can actually be amazing. But it can also be an ordeal that turns you off ever trying it again.

A bad experience is one where you endure the event, rather than enjoy it. You are left, hopefully, only with regret and a misunderstanding of what anal sex is like. You are left thinking discomfort or even pain is part of the act. It isn't - or at least it shouldn't be.

Avoiding painful anal sex is easy if you are patient and know what you're doing. Everything I talk about in the following pages equips you with the knowledge, if you are a woman, to have pleasurable anal sex, or if you are a man, to ensure your partner enjoys the act with you. Knowledge and understanding what you are doing is the key to enjoying anal sex.